今天看见这一篇文章,很多其他朋友都留言说:这跟我自己很像哦!我想,应该很多女孩都是这样的吧。或许我也是这样的。
碰到这样的“她”请好好珍惜
by Cy Wong on Monday, August 30, 2010 at 12:43pm
她其实有点懒,喜欢赖床。她其实不太乖,喜欢捣蛋。
她在陌生人面前会很安静,很冷漠,在熟人面前却很放肆,很霸道,并喜欢没形象的哈哈大笑。不要认为她很粗鲁,她只是很单纯的认为,大家打打闹闹,骂骂笑笑,表示更亲切,更不分你我。
她独立,也好强, 她宁愿忍受太多的寂寞和痛苦也不愿意向别人提起。 她也会偶尔的忧郁, 朋友问她怎么了, 她也只会说没事。其实她只是感觉累了,她只是需要一个拥抱。其实骨子里,渴望有一个避风港湾,让她去依靠。但她不会承认。
她必须确定那个人是否可以承受得了这一切的,承受她的撒娇、她的无理取闹,她的倔强,她的悲观,她所有的性格缺陷且永远不离不弃。只有这样,她才放心,可以放心去继续做自己,不会害怕有一天将要面对失去。如果没有,那么她只好继续寂寞和孤独。 她对爱情没有安全感,也不会给别人安全感。她爱不起,更怕伤害。
她一定要对方先流露出对她有好感,她才散发她的热情。 她爱的永远是对她最好的那个,那个好她心里是有一个标准的,你的积分超过了那条线,她会爱上你,但大多数人没超过线之前就离开了,或者超过了之后没等她看到就离开了。
其实她要的并不多,她要的只是一个温暖的家。对她来说太重要了,虽然在她们口中说出来的却是:我不需要爱情。
她会希望现在的他是怎样怎样的,有各种各样的挑剔苛求的条件.她只不过是想要一个用努力来证明爱她的人,她不求结果,只希望你有那份心。 对她们而言,唯一具备杀伤力的只有感情, 感情如果受到挫折,会毁了她,要么成就了她。从此更加漠然,专注于事业。
她从来不会在情人面前大声哭泣,除非她真的崩溃了。她想对你负责,对她负责,对自己的过去和未来负责,但请你不要轻易给她承诺和誓言.她很难相信. 即使她很难相信,但她还是会选择等待。若她喜欢上你,请你不要在她的世界里消失。 她没有更多的要求,不会打扰你的生活。 她只是想静静的看着你,当你的观众,仅此而已。 她的伤初始浓烈似酒,很快就会变为一杯水,却让水渗入生活成为点点滴滴.她选择在其中淡定,在其中沉默和内伤.
她就是这样,强势,霸道,任性。。。
不会讨人欢心,死要面子,她爱朋友多过你。
她善变,最耐不住寂寞却又喜欢假惺惺的让自己一个人呆着。
有时候她又充满阳光的气息,爱笑爱说话,活蹦乱跳,可爱迷人。。
她很自私,只愿意与人同甘,不愿意让别人跟她共苦。。。
她的家庭不一定很是富裕,但她都是习惯了养尊处优。
她喜欢热闹,总会成为聚会的焦点,前提是她想。
她也享受孤独,会静坐在一个人的房间听着很伤感的音乐。
她也会一整天呆在房间里心情压抑低落,但第二天一早起来,又会轻轻松松的打理一切,慌慌忙忙的拽着大衣拎着包往外冲。
她习惯在人前表现的很坚强的模样。
她从不轻言爱,她的爱很沉默,那并非是因为她缺少那份勇气,在她的心里有一道栅栏, 那就是自尊。她看得比生命更尊贵的自尊。
她会在真正爱她的人面前卸掉所有的盔甲和伪装,做个幸福的小女人,她不要求你要做什么,不会无理取闹要你陪着她,她有自己的生活,她给你空间因为她也需要空间.
她不让你给她买这买那,但是心里却会为你私自买给她的礼物而暗自开心,因为女人觉得那是你的宠爱。
她在意的是你的心,你若真心,她必然实意。最起码你得表现的真心, 能让她感觉得到.
终有一天,她的敏感在你的呵护下慢慢消失不见,她的倔强被你的保护软化,她的伪装在你面前被轻易识穿。。。
得到她,别骄傲, 只有懂她的人,才会得到她的好。
她有时是有些迟钝的,在感情方面,但有时很敏感,因为她在乎。。。
如果你没有绝对的真心,请别爱她,因为她最怕没安全感,害怕失去平衡。。。
这一种女孩子就以这样的方式生活着,
她有她的梦想,
她的希望。
一个如花儿般的女孩子,她时而快乐,时而忧伤;时而郁闷,时而疯狂;时而邪恶,时而善良;时而脆弱,时而坚强!你可以说她傻,也可以骂她笨,也可以说她冷,但是她们还是生活在自己的世界里,希望做一个幸福、善良的孩子!
*这样的女生,会遇到懂她的人吗?我相信会的。
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Monday, December 6, 2010
追逐遥不可及的完美男子
我常常疑问,到底人可以有多疯狂的迷恋某个人?疯狂到哪一个程度?我看见的,是为了他,能够不惜一切金钱,时间,与精神, 从一个国度跟随到另一个国度的痴追。对于那遥不可及的距离,还能存在怎么样的幻想呢。追逐,只为了他偶尔回眸望一望人群的眼神和笑容。追逐,只为了见他近距离的一面。直到自己亲身在粉丝群中推挤,我依然不明白,我甚至质疑这价值在哪里?虽然完美男子的身影,的确让我的心也泛起了一阵涟漪,直赞叹他的风采。不让青春留白,作为记忆的一部分,我仅能如此说服自己。或许,我的潜意识告诉我说,追逐的方式有很多种;喜欢,可以透过观赏他的演绎作品幻想,可以看着他的照片发呆,也可以是听着他的歌睡着。相信,他可以感受到自己的魅力,和我们默默喜欢着他的心意。
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Sunday, September 26, 2010
Thursday, September 16, 2010
爱上驻唱歌手
还记得,第一次到海螺民歌餐厅出席朋友的生日聚餐。在那里,我发觉我很喜欢单纯地静静的坐在角落看着有艺术气息的驻唱歌手唱歌,缓缓搅拌着杯子的边缘,细细啜吸着香甜的饮料,聆听着他们的歌声环绕在耳际。
昨夜,在咖啡馆的聚会再次让我的心悸动。眼神总会不经意飘向驻唱台的他,听着他略微沙哑的低沉歌声,心里跟着他的旋律在哼调。好想,有一天能遇上一个音乐人,我背靠着他,听他自弹自唱。我想,这样的一天,会让我很享受悠闲很幸福微笑吧。
或许是自己也很希望拥有歌唱天份吧,或许是自己的心底会说我也想把歌唱得像他们一样动听吧!所以不知觉,就爱上了他们勇于表演,与兴趣结合的工作,也爱上了带给我美妙夜晚的他们。
昨夜,在咖啡馆的聚会再次让我的心悸动。眼神总会不经意飘向驻唱台的他,听着他略微沙哑的低沉歌声,心里跟着他的旋律在哼调。好想,有一天能遇上一个音乐人,我背靠着他,听他自弹自唱。我想,这样的一天,会让我很享受悠闲很幸福微笑吧。
或许是自己也很希望拥有歌唱天份吧,或许是自己的心底会说我也想把歌唱得像他们一样动听吧!所以不知觉,就爱上了他们勇于表演,与兴趣结合的工作,也爱上了带给我美妙夜晚的他们。
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Where is my passion?
Since i last post my article on Future and the first chapter: time machine, three months had pass by. When i look back, this is the time i am really wondering, where is my passion gone? Where is the passion that burnt inside me when i first have the idea and start transforming the thoughts into real work to be shared with others? This is not the first time, but had happened many times.
First in my secondary school, i start writing novels with my freinds, promise to exchange and read our stories. However, that story i only able to finish until the 3rd chapter. Till now, it never have an ending. Then i have a idea of owning a webpage, so called "文字酒吧" as a place for writers to share and others to enjoy the beautiful of word's miracle. I finished with the whole plan of proposal, but never the action of setting up the page. I want to self-learning the language of Japanese, i started the first chapter...i want to read books, i bought them...i want to go travel, i read information...and now, i want to start a new blog on my future, i did the first chapter...and that's it! That's all i have done. Am i lazy? Am i fed up? Am i not patient enough to complete them?
I wish i could find the passion that hide inside myself and let it burn forever. I wish and i must complete at least one great thing in my life~
First in my secondary school, i start writing novels with my freinds, promise to exchange and read our stories. However, that story i only able to finish until the 3rd chapter. Till now, it never have an ending. Then i have a idea of owning a webpage, so called "文字酒吧" as a place for writers to share and others to enjoy the beautiful of word's miracle. I finished with the whole plan of proposal, but never the action of setting up the page. I want to self-learning the language of Japanese, i started the first chapter...i want to read books, i bought them...i want to go travel, i read information...and now, i want to start a new blog on my future, i did the first chapter...and that's it! That's all i have done. Am i lazy? Am i fed up? Am i not patient enough to complete them?
I wish i could find the passion that hide inside myself and let it burn forever. I wish and i must complete at least one great thing in my life~
Friday, December 4, 2009
1. Time machine
Days pass quietly and life is just like the expected routine that is being repeated. I am a normal girl who might behave like a boy with a normal dream, an imaginative big dreamer. I am studying. I am pursuing my first degree. I am taking part in activities. I am socializing with the people around me. I am struggling with my assignments. I am arguing with my colleagues. I am hesitating to go into relationship. I love myself. I love my family. And I love all my friends. I like to sing. I like to write words. I like doing what I love to do. All in all, I was a typical Malaysian university student.
University's Life
But life does have some changes. When I start to discover about my real self, to do a lots of thinking about me myself, to visualize my own destiny in this world… I lost myself again and again until a point I decided that “Okay, that is ME.” I found myself. Here have to speak out my appreciation to a sweet daddy who loves to share and guide me along the way.
Recently, I started to realize my dreams. I invented a special time machine for myself. I used to disbelief on this kind of things, but again beliefs changes as time changes. On the testing day, I proudly spelled out. “One…Two…Three…GO!” I pressed the green button in front of me.
Time Machine
BLANK.
I cannot see things for a few seconds. I cannot even hear a single sound. Is this another world? However, I was calm both mentally and physically. The feeling is just nice enough for me to say cheese like what I always do while I am taking photograph.
BANG!
Ouchhh…it is painful. I gently open my eyes and found myself sitting on the floor in my own room. I will say it is no different at all except that the calendar is a year in advanced after that few minutes. Surprisingly, I am looking at my degree certificates. Wow…I got myself graduated with a first class honors, a CGPA of 3.902! What am I going to do next? What am I having now? How I want my life to be? A sudden time pass is exciting yet confusing. It’s time for me to take a break, so I can plan and take action starting tomorrow!
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But life does have some changes. When I start to discover about my real self, to do a lots of thinking about me myself, to visualize my own destiny in this world… I lost myself again and again until a point I decided that “Okay, that is ME.” I found myself. Here have to speak out my appreciation to a sweet daddy who loves to share and guide me along the way.
Recently, I started to realize my dreams. I invented a special time machine for myself. I used to disbelief on this kind of things, but again beliefs changes as time changes. On the testing day, I proudly spelled out. “One…Two…Three…GO!” I pressed the green button in front of me.
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BLANK.
I cannot see things for a few seconds. I cannot even hear a single sound. Is this another world? However, I was calm both mentally and physically. The feeling is just nice enough for me to say cheese like what I always do while I am taking photograph.
BANG!
Ouchhh…it is painful. I gently open my eyes and found myself sitting on the floor in my own room. I will say it is no different at all except that the calendar is a year in advanced after that few minutes. Surprisingly, I am looking at my degree certificates. Wow…I got myself graduated with a first class honors, a CGPA of 3.902! What am I going to do next? What am I having now? How I want my life to be? A sudden time pass is exciting yet confusing. It’s time for me to take a break, so I can plan and take action starting tomorrow!
Future
This is one of the question I think about the most recently. Who I am and how I want to be in the future.
Many elders always said, only when you know your direction and goals, you'll take action to achieve them. However, I may be too greedy. Till now, I cannot determine what is the most important one inside my mind because there are too many ideas. I always been asking myself, can you choose all options that you have thought of? Can you have so many different lifestyle and characters? I guess the answer is a No. That's mean I need to make a choice.
Before I do make up my mind, now i shall let my imagination grow in an infinite momentum. Let's see what is my future all about...
Many elders always said, only when you know your direction and goals, you'll take action to achieve them. However, I may be too greedy. Till now, I cannot determine what is the most important one inside my mind because there are too many ideas. I always been asking myself, can you choose all options that you have thought of? Can you have so many different lifestyle and characters? I guess the answer is a No. That's mean I need to make a choice.
Before I do make up my mind, now i shall let my imagination grow in an infinite momentum. Let's see what is my future all about...
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